Reader’s Issue: I want to be free to be me
Janet,
“I feel stuck and want to break free and be myself. I’ve healed many childhood issues, but I still feel stuck.”
What can I do?
Mick”
Response:
I met Mick in a private chatroom where I talked him through a Greene’s Release session. What came up was a big surprise to him and me.
You can read the comment he will be leaving below about the experience and outcome, and my comment and overview of this topic.
You can
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Note: The results you see here are typical of those achieved with Greene’s Release. If you would like to try a Greene’s Release Session click here
For more information on how Greene’s Release can remove this emotional scar see: Freedom from Emotional Pain (3 articles) and Heal Childhood Scars (4 articles)
3 Comments
July 30, 2008 at 4:08 pm
Many people have tried various methods to heal their pain, but there is one way to make sure. If you think about the issue and feel any emotion or feeling at all, then it is not resolved.
An issue is healed and permanently resolved when you think about the issue and feel blank or absolutely nothing. It feels rather strange at first.
Mick didn’t realize that he still held so much anger at his father, and was taken back when he felt the strength of this rage.
Anger is a perfectly normal reaction to emotional abuse, just like fear and sadness. Who wouldn’t be outraged that a child was treated in this way?
Fathers and sons, an interesting dynamic that can leave the child scarred for life. Fathers are filled with hopes and dreams of their son growing up to be just like them; strong, manly, and aggressive in this case.
Yet when a man sees his son behaving gently and kindly, he can become scared that the son will grow up unable to cope in the cruel world that he knows. So he pushes and teases, and often goes too far.
The child terrified by the ongoing vilifying actions of this huge man that towers over him, can become paralyzed in fear, take on the belief that he is powerless, all the while filling himself with anger and hatred for this abusive person.
The child grows up haunted by the feelings of helplessness, hopelessness, repressed rage, and views himself as less of a man. The implications on every aspect of his life are tremendous as you can imagine.
Yet, with Greene’s Release it is possible to go into the storehouse of emotional wounds to heal and permanently remove the fear, anger and sadness of this event quite easily.
It will always amaze me how the seemingly strong emotional hurts of childhood are so ready to be released and healed, and how quickly the person walks away a free person.
Make the decision to stop being haunted by your childhood pain today!
August 1, 2008 at 4:38 pm
I am sorry that Mick did not comment directly. Here are a few of Mick’s comments made to me.
”I’m not a person to “refuse to see” myself…but I must admit the desire to brutalize him is uncanny”
After completing the release….
“I’m still in front of the mirror…but he is gone from my image”
”I feel empty”
”Vacuum…..empty space…good space of now-ness… ”
”I am ready as anybody can be”
”I feel as one with the inner…child”
”Thank you”
August 7, 2009 at 11:33 pm
hi,
Here is the link to our latest article on anger.
http://greenesrelease.wordpress.com/2009/08/07/why-you-get-so-angry-and-what-you-can-do-about-it/